She's STILL running away!!!!

[Truegritter]

easier for my W to just stroll through this D process with as little “resistance” as possible.

First of all, if she wants a D she is entitled to a D no matter how much resistance you decide to put yourself through.

Because...

Unfortunately, I also know that this is literally the first issue she has ever taken a stand on since we have known each other. Backing off her stance is viewed as weakness in her eyes. She is trying to prove her strength.

So how much of you challenging her was your old M? How much of your old M is you taking charge and bullying her?

I am not a sit back and wait guy. I am completely the opposite in fact.

Hmmm... something tells me that this might be the guy she is walking away from?

And your challenges are...more of the same.

How about trying to be the opposite of being just the opposite of a sit back and wait kinda guy?

This is a game and one you won't win IF you believe it IS a game.

If you are acting your changesjust as a tactic and don't mean them.

She will sniff you out like a drug dog at the Miami airport.

You have been getting good advice from these ladies here.

It is time for you to swallow a big helping of humility because you won't save your M without it.

Anyone not humbled by this tragedy and process is doomed to repeat it I am afraid.

Goal oriented? What part of your goals do YOU control?