I think divorce is the worst thing I have ever gone through. It is worse if it is something that you don't want. However, it proceeds regardless. So best to cut ties as much as possible to protect yourself.

This may sound bad but it is how I learned to cope. My now ex was acting like an alien. I felt as if the person that I fell in love with, the one I married had died. I mourned the loss of him and our marriage. I spent the last three years post divorce putting my kids and myself back together. We still have our days but for the most part our lives are back on track.

I did go to a counselor for a year and speaking to others here helped a great deal. Sorry that you find yourself here but realize that it does get better with time.

kat


Me-53(and learning!)
S24, S21, D18, D17
Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory