Grace,
I have one other son 17 and a daughter 13. My S-17 has been a tough kid to handle. In trouble a lot. He was tough before my W went MLC/WAW but became more so after the fact. He hates her. I can't say it more clearly than that. The problem is as we all know on this forum that hate eats at you and so it's no different with a S-17.

My D-13 does not say anything about it. We have a great relationship. I have brought it up in passing conversation but nothing that comes out of it is substantial. I don't know the repercussions down the road but we all know psychologically everything you see as a child has an effect on you in some way. Hopefully with some of the guidance she has received she will be OK. I make the time with me as safe and secure as I can. I have her roughly 60-70% of the time. When she is with W she is pawned off to whoever so the W can hit the bars etc.

Tell me more about this game. Thanks for reading and the support.

Spirit