i was born without the ability to gauge sarcasm, so i'm gonna assume your response is pure sarcasm. and thats fine.
i could give you comfort, and hope and every other warm feeling you'd like. but i dont think thats helpful. i wanted those too but in reality i needed to see what was really happening. and looking back it was those people who laid out the truth that helped me most.
i can tell you that after i got away from the drama and bs i'm much better off, i'm mostly happy, i'm much more content and confident, and karma is giving back in ways that i'd never imagine. the other side, that one that everyone is fighting against here, isnt so bad.
"In a ham and eggs breakfast, the hen is involved, but the pig is committed".