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[Julz]

Mine was a good dad too. Ok he was at work all day, but he'd love to bath the kids, play with them, etc. Now they see him one night a fortnight - his choice. He never even rings them! Everyone that knows him thinks he's turned into a selfish prick. When you bring kids into the world you are no longer number 1 - he does not get this. He spends more time with OW's kid then his own flesh and blood.