Further update: not a good day yesterday. My elder brother arrived to see me, and he has had a stroke, which he didn't tell me about. A shock. But good to see him
Then xh sent me an email saying he had been by our old house and taken some photos of the changes the new owners had made to the garden, and would I like some pix. But he understood if not. I have no idea why he is gong back to our old home and taking photos, The new owners must surely find it strange. . . .
WTF. I know it sounds kind, but I loved that house, and it broke me up when we sold it, although I could not have stayed either financially or emotionally. It was our family home . .
Xh managed to make it sound as if i have an emotional disability in finding parts of the past painful . . . . And I feel, though do not say, that he has an emotional disability in not finding some of this stuff painful.
I think he is in an odd place right now, and I am not in a good place to be dealing with him. Bit of a ramble here.
