Well my wife moved out about three months ago. suposedly seperating so we can work on things but she said she doesnt miss me one bit. We went to a supposed marriage counselor and she told her she need to be vulnerable to me and my flipped out and said its over I filing for a divorce. She really seems like she hates me.
as of to day still has not filed for a divorce.
So a few weeks ago I reached out to her and told her we have two children and need to communicate better for their well being she agreed. We talked and got along great we went on a family camping vacation and she stayed in our camper and I drove back to our cabin every night because she didn't want me to stay with her and the kids. Well after that I took my kids camping and for the next four days. I spoke with her a few weeks after that and she said that was the best vacation we ever took together and my kids told her that our vacation was the best they have ever been on.
So she then told me she isn't in love with me anymore and will never fall in love with me again , but in the same sentence she said "I like more now then I have in the past three years" and things went well for a week and then I started going back to church and being happy with my life changes and all of the sudden she is flipping out wanting to know what i'm doing with our house etc. she wants to move to her own house ( lives with her mom and dad) so now she is very angry and short with me. This was her decision to leave and move in with her parents.
so I offered her to move back home and told her the door will always be open and she said no way that's not what I want, but she said she has no plan. told me to move on with my life and now Is this a normal reaction or am I really confusing her by working on my issues and finding resolutions to them.
Also said shes scared I will revert back to my old self which I understand I need to prove it for awhile but she really belives.
