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[a girl]

Just chiming in to agree with KenF - I like the consistency of a set schedule, and I think that whatever works best for the child(ren) is the best one. Some kids like the 3/4 day split, some don't. My S7 is not at all interested in going 3 days without seeing me, so we won't be going that route.

I am looking forward, in a few months, to being at a point where we can go to a M/W, T/Th overnight scenario, but we're not there yet.