Thanks SFO, two of my workmates told me today how much they liked her too. She's nice, friendly and has a great sense of humour...and is so darn cute! She told me at afternoon break that she was leaving her employer probably at the end of this week. The job she was offered has come through quicker than she thought. Apparently, she told me that in the morning but I didn't get the immediacy, I sometimes miss things due to her accent. I told her I was happy for her but also feeling quite sad, I'd miss our talks together. Then I went for it. I suggested we get together on the weekend and do something fun together. I suggested we visit a nearby small town. She said "Sure, why not. I have nothing to do on weekends!" So we decided to firm up our plans on Thursday, I wanted to check my schedule with my girls. she then offered me her phone number just in case. As far as Voldemort, I have no illusions of getting back together, haven't for a long time. As I've said before the person she is now is the same person I lived with for so long and I don't want that. I will be honest and show integrity with MM. We will discuss our marital situations when the time is right. She knows I'm separated and have been for a number of years. I don't know her marital status, if she's Filipino with a child I'm guessing she was married and may still be. No divorce in the Philippines. Anyway, I just didn't want to see her walk out of my life, so I acted. Maybe something nice will happen, maybe we'll just be friends or maybe nothing. We'll see but I'm going to enjoy every minute we spend on our little outing and see where it goes. Will I be nervous, probably. Will she, probably! Anyway, enough of that for one day.