This is what you said on the 8th of this month:

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I have officially dropped the rope. My W, or whatever being has occupied her body, can run. It will be difficult but I’m done.


What was that all about?

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I have to challenge her at some point for all our sakes.


What are you calling a "challenge"? Asking her if she's sure she really wants to go this direction?

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I understand the whole concept of DB’ing. Here’s the issue: I am going to be fine even if this D goes through. I am GAL’ing, etc and plan to keep doing that irregardless. The real issue here is that I want to save my family.


So what are you really saying? That DB was fine, but now it's got to the serious point and you've got to save your family?

You have been told not to pursue. You've been told not to have R talks. Is it the R talks or the pursuing that you are wanting to do?

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Waiting for her to “snap out of it” may be a good strategy under “normal” circumstances.


What makes you think we ever talked about this as being NORMAL? What you are telling us is that we've just been playing a board game? That now you're going to do it "your" way? And after all that, you expect us to say "when" you are suppose to do this your way? mad

What ever made you think a WAW is going to snap out of it?

You haven't changed! You are still that same guy that thinks he can make her change her mind by TALKING TO HER. You are still that same guy WHO DOESN'T LISTEN!


It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!