jb, this jumped out at me as well. I can definitely see some of my H in your W which is probably why I follow your sitch so closely. That, and also because you've been very supportive of mine. I think it's wonderful they way you support, not only the men, but the women on this board as well. I think it must be all that time you spend with the church ladies.
Thanks for that, E. You're not too bad yourself Also, shoot - you took the time to read through however many threads I have out there now and I was flat-out impressed. You've thrown some challenging questions at me and I value your perspective.
Quite an update there. It sounds like you knew what to do. Although, I do wonder if he feels like when he talks he feels like it comes out as jibberish, and that's why he was right beside you texting you. Who knows? Heck, I can resemble that thought - never texted my W when she's been in the same house though.
Originally Posted By: Endeavour
Is this all positive? Yes. Does this mean I believe with absolute certainty that he wants to work on our M? Not really. He's incredibly confused. But I am glad he admits he needs help in dealing with his grief over his mother's death.
Sound like you may have nailed it. It sounds like he's very confused and he's desperately searching for a solution to the cause of his pain. I hope he follows through with C and if he does, he is consistent and keeps going.
Are you still going to talk to the MC you found? Do you think your H would be willing to do both?
Heck, I can resemble that thought - never texted my W when she's been in the same house though.
