Walk away spouse- what else can I do?

[Handler]

We communicated with a couple of brief phone calls and emails during my trip overseas.

I got back last week and was served with divorce papers on Thursday at my work. Nice. I have a month to respond.

She called to see how I was doing and we had a walk during lunch. It became a bit testy at times but she remarked how well I was taking this.

We went to dinner that night for a work-related event and had a good time considering the circumstances.

We’ve had mostly good interactions since. She has organized several activities that will take her out of the house on weekends, without me of course. She asked last night when we would tell the kids about the impending (probably) divorce and we talked briefly about potential dates.

Overall, she does seem more relaxed and joked around with me several times last night during and after dinner.

I continue to strive to be that person that only a fool would leave.