just want to jump in and give my schedule, in case you can use it.

i have my daughter monday, wednesdays, and every other weekend starting fridays. its perfectly 50/50. all swapping is done through daycare, and soon through school. if all goes well, i dont have to see x - major bonus.

the longest period of time away from my daughter is when x has her thurs to monday morning. but the next week i have her friday till tuesday morning.

my work and everyone knows my schedule, its easy to set up meetings, what days i leave work early, etc. its never too long without daughter, although weekends away feel like that regardless.

this is the one thing i would not budge on in my div agreement. and of course, starting even before we finalized and continuing till today, my x keeps trying to change it, every few months another new reason.


"In a ham and eggs breakfast, the hen is involved, but the pig is committed".