Of the 40 or so men I dated...I met exactly ONE in a bar. And he was a jerk. And I only met maybe 3 jerks.
I know people who have met their spouses in bars but not lately and not many.
There are so many ways (GAL is the main one) to meet good healthy people. Classes, seminars, church, sports, clubs, meetings, JOIN things, meet new people... I have a brother and a sister who met their present spouses online on a dating site, but they were very specific & detailed...
and the other 6 siblings met in more traditional ways (and through other siblings.)
Can't imagine thinking that a bar would be the place.
Dig a little more and find out exactly what it is you are searching for...b/c I think you are settling big time. And acting out of fear of being alone.
The only thing worse than being alone, is wishing you were.
If you are the type of man to NEED a woman (any woman will do) you won't be a great companion. You need to see that...
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
