soccerwife, I've sorry this is happening. You must be under so much stress. I'm glad you booked a massage though and I hope that helps relief some of your stress. Enjoy.
While I don't think it's a great idea to confide in children in this situations, if your H already told your S13 then I'm not sure telling him your side of the story was a mistake. It sounds like he was pretty annoyed at you (telling you to move on) for what he perceived to be the truth so letting him know your thoughts probably gave him a clearer picture of what was actually going on. I think that's better than him not knowing and jumping to false conclusions that could damage your relationship with him.
Anyway, I agree that it might be time to stop resisting as it's only going to push your H further towards his goal.
