QOS, Thanks for the info. Things have certainly changed since I've been single. I'm sure I'm looking at a learning curve. Thanks for helping smooth the curve a little. I'm pretty cautious by nature.
Sandi, I here you. I wouldn't look to get involved with a habitual "bar" girl. I've been out of college a long time The irony of your words is that my W has become a bit of a barhopper and I want her more than anything. Obviously not because of, but in spite of. I plan to pursue several social avenues if it comes to that. I do enjoy occasionally hitting the bars with friends to help unwind. The Y has turned out to be a pretty good venue for meeting people.