had not seen Val's post before I posted mine. (Good one Val).
Good point Denver. Where are YOU in this, aside from the fear and pain of it all?
Which is also something you do Not need to keep telling your w. This sukks for her too, believe it or not.
She ain't a happy camper.
My other thought is about your ss. I hope you can maintain something good with him when the dust settles. I doubt he "gets" this. IF you do talk to him about it, keep it simple and short & assure HIM of your love for him...
(and of course, as you know, don't bash the w.)
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