Im sorry thats the detail that stood out the most out of my whole post
Broken,
The thing that stood out most, about your post was about the need for change.
Do you really think that was the whole point of my post was to attack you? That serves no purpose for me, what does is giving you the best advice I can to help you save your marriage.
I called you chief to put a little personal perspective on it, I am hoping you were being clever and doing the Dane Cook thing in response.
If that is the way you talk, and you have two people, strangers who don't like it? It might be something worth looking at. Ask a friend, or co-worker how they feel about it.
The words: "I'm sorry (insert what you're sorry about), but..."
The but tends to invalidate the sorry. The but is only used to justify why you did/said what you said. If you're not sorry...don't say it.
You may think I am being an asshat, overly picky and attacking you. I am not, there is a notify button that will send this topic and whatever post you feel is offensive, not only to me, but to the head honcho Virginia if you feel that I am.
I am being picky, because you still have a need to communicate with your wife. Until I broke bad habits when I talked with my wife? She wasn't listening to me. One of the first signs that I had changed for her, was in how I talked with her. (Not to her, not at her, but with her)
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK
