I don't want an older man. At my age (55) even most of the guys my age are physically and physiologically a lot older than I am. My grandmother lived to be 99 and I have longevity on both sides of my family, so I expect to live a long time - I don't really want to fall in love with a guy who is going to drop dead of a heart attack in the next few years.
So - I'd like a YOUTHFUL guy my age, OR someone about ten years younger like the last guy. Old enough to be in a similar phase of life (he had grown kids the same ages as mine and was expecting a grandchild, even though he was younger) but not SO much younger that I will always have to be looking over my shoulder or spending all my time at the plastic surgeon's office.
