Time to let go of the ordinary...#35

[kat727]

Actually I don't think she is together as it might seem. Basically she kept pulling things out and asked if it belonged here or not. However, it might just be the motivation I need. She didn't show me any kind of system which might actually be of more help.

kat

[Reincarnated]

kat - I had the same experience. I found that I just like company, and that is free! Or, at most the cost of dinner....

[kat727]

So I took a walk down memory lane yesterday. In some way I am looking at former boyfriends and attractions just to try and see my thread of thinking. There was a well know magician that I kind of had a thing with. I hadn't thought to look him up in years.

So he is married now. He is touring all over the place . He seems older now, beyond his years. He is one of the few older men that I was attracted to.

Kat

[kml]

Lol - that is the problem with older men, as we get older, they get OLD!!!

[kat727]

I prefer guys around my own age or a year or two on either side. Doesn't mean I couldn't eventually fall for someone a bit older but I am not seeking them out.

So busy already helping with homework, I honestly don't know where the time would come from for me to date on a regular basis. It isn't a major concern right now. If it happens great, but I have other things on my plate that need attention too.

kat

[kml]

I don't want an older man. At my age (55) even most of the guys my age are physically and physiologically a lot older than I am. My grandmother lived to be 99 and I have longevity on both sides of my family, so I expect to live a long time - I don't really want to fall in love with a guy who is going to drop dead of a heart attack in the next few years.

So - I'd like a YOUTHFUL guy my age, OR someone about ten years younger like the last guy. Old enough to be in a similar phase of life (he had grown kids the same ages as mine and was expecting a grandchild, even though he was younger) but not SO much younger that I will always have to be looking over my shoulder or spending all my time at the plastic surgeon's office.

[kat727]

Ditto to that!!

kat

[kat727]

So if you don't post on your own thread for a couple of weeks, does that mean you are doing well?? LOL

kat

[mishka422]

I would say so!

[MichelleLT]

I hope so!