She's STILL running away!!!!

[Queen_of_Swords]

I have started perusing online dating sites. I haven’t contacted anyone, but it helps me to see that there is potential out there. I hate to think that I will have to start barhopping to meet women. Been there, done that. It has its upside but I’m 40…..turning into the dirty old man at the bar.

I have tried the dating sites and I'll pass on what I've learned. Not to discourage you, but so that you're aware.

Walk into this with your eyes open, it's the wild west out there. There are predators ( sexual and financial). I could give you a list of what to watch for but your experience may differ.

I found that there are a lot of damaged people that have the potential( if you choose to let your hormones run you) to inject more chaos in your life or devalue you to make themselves feel better or to obtain what they wanted without consideration for you.

Be true to your values. Recognize your own self worth, don't settle for less than what you're worth, keep your eyes peeled and your senses sharp and you'll be alright.