"W you know where I stand on all of this." <---- if you believe you made yourself clear by your email. Only you can say.

That inlcudes comments meant to make you feel guilty about not going to a concert with SS. (stepson is a button for you Denver)

That inlcudes questions about what, where, who, when and why you are doing anything. (other woman is also a button for you)

So is ("it's always secrets with you Denver")

How many more buttons did she push?

Enough to break your promise to yourself and respond.

WHEN SHE KNOWS SHE CAN STILL PUSH THOSE BUTTONS SHE KNOWS SHE IS STILL DEALING WITH THE OLD DENVER.

More from you about how you changed which you decided you needed to tell her again.

She ain't listening right now Denver.

Did you do better? yes.

Did you do your best? Did you do what you said you would do?

You don't need me to tell you that.

OK so we can dwell here again. Or

Answer me this:

What made you respond to her again? Emotions or your values?

Strength or self doubt?

I am not trying to bust on you D there IS one right answer here among all these opinions about the details of what to do or not.

That lies in your ability to put your fear and self doubt away and stand up for what you believe and value.

Everything else is just noise. Everything else is a non starter.

Is she ready to commit to your M? No?

Then

"W you know where I stand on all of this."

Calm. Cool. Collected. Confident. (nickel Gnosis?)

My goal is to some day be the person my dog thinks I am