Thinking out loud here: I have been wondering lately that perhaps in my case it wouldn't be bad idea for me to be the one who pushes for a divorce. After all, my wife probably thinks I am the same old Alamo clinging on to the old marriage, not wanting to let go. I can practice DB/DRing all I want, but in her eyes, if all she sees is me doing all sorts of changes, yet hangs on to this marriage like it was going out of style... tell me I'm crazy...or not crazy.
BTW, still can't decide what to reply to my wife regarding her refusal to pay bills. Any assistance would be greatly appreciated.
