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[Truegritter]

but have trouble understanding truegritter....so there you go

Sorry it was not meant to be cryptic.

Brooklyn did a great job of sifting through gritterspeak.

She should she has been with me the whole way!

I mean quite plainly:

At first you are here because you have lost something and you feel if you could only get it back

Everything would be ok.

That doesn't last long when it becomes clear that this will be a long time and maybe never.

Then other people question your choice. Then you question your choice.

IT IS THEN

That you must decide why YOU are doing this. And you may not know why at first. But with conviction (if you decide to do this) you step on.

The worst is what you have already dreaded. I mean the trials that you feared are already here. And there will be more.

But there is more to this journey than surrendering to that.

We start focusing on the outcome (our marriage).... we end with a journey that never ends.

Now if you can explain Mamet to me?

[grr]

brooklyn, thank you for translating the "truespeak"

true, i am choosing to stand, and if i ask myself why...........

my child, the last 18 years are the first that come to mind...and those to me are very valid reasons

and your words gave me lots to think about.......but REALLY, there will be more trials than this, REALLY?????

ugh

and i would explain mamet, but since his turn to the right, i don't believe i can

[Grace_O]

.......but REALLY, there will be more trials than this, REALLY?????

Sadly.

"If you aren't in over your head, how do you know how tall you are?" ~T.S. Eliot

[♪CS♪]

Hey grr.

Just saying hi.

I tend to not get over here very often. Hope you are well.