"W: "All I took from your email is that you still didn't tell me if you're dating or f*cking someone else. I guess I'm just supposed to assume you are and that secrets are still how you communicate with me. At least I was honest with you when I started dating.""
"W: f*ck you for maintaining a relationship with the b!tch all these years even when we were together." "
This is a perception of you from her side that isn't going away very easily is it?
Funny, my own WAW came clean about her EA when she wanted to be "honest" with me so she could go and visit OM - WTF I thought at the time. You're asking my permission to get a D and carry on with OM?
You see she believes she's always been honest with you, while all these years you've been secretive about your female friends. Depending on one's frame of mind, it's very tempting when an opportunity presents itself to even the score.
This is something she's going to have to get past, and I don't know what you can do to help it. She has to "feel" she can trust you. That's going to be an uphill climb. You're going to need a lot of patience Denver.
Take care of yourself.
Me 53 XW 50 M 18 Years +2 S14 D19 Bomb 10-24-10 Served 1-27-11 Mediate 4-21-11 Civil D Final 6-2-11 No church anullment "A man is not finished when he is defeated, he is finished when he quits."
