WTF?!?!

[InAPickle]

You know what I sensed from the above exchange Denver?

She doesen't trust you.
You don't trust her.
You're both on your guard.
Pushing buttons and testing.
Not very attractive, same ole stuff as 6 mos ago.

Time to do something different. But what?
You obviously both still care - (somewhat).

Problem is this is eerily, scary similar to many WA's.
They want to be friends; they want to be buds, but they still want to carry on with their OP's.
Some even want to be roommates!

I can't tell you what to do about her man.
You've told what you want.
You've told her what you can't tolerate.
Just remember, feelings are everything to a WA, especially a WAW.

But you've got to heal yourself - for you, and for SS.
Listen man, ask any student after an exam, or athelete after a tryout.
Sometimes your best just isn't good enough - on that day.
So you prepare for the next time, by doing what? making your best, just a little better, but there are no f@cking guarantees.
If you don't snap out of it as 25 said, this could go on interminably.