W: "Are you interested in just going to the concert with SS and I?"
I responded:
Me: "As much as I want to say yes W, I just don't think that it is a good idea. I will definitely be missing being with you guys though."
Just called SS to see how his first day of school went.
He and W were shopping for some new school clothes.
We talked about that and school briefly.
Then he asked me if I was going to the concert tomorrow night.
I told him that I wasn't. That it wasn't a good idea for me to go. That he and his mom needed some space apart. That I really want to go but that it's not a good idea right now. I then said that we will go to another in the future.
SS said: "that's what you said last time"
He was referring to a concert that I had gotten us all tickets to last summer before W and I separated.
I did not go to that concert bc W and I had gotten into a huge argument about something f'ing stupid and I was throwing a fit.
When SS said that tonight, I said, "This is different bud. I am not mad at your mom, and I want to go. It's just not a good idea right now."
SS said ok. I told him to have a good time at the concert, that I loved him, and we got off of the phone.
^^^^ Continued UPDATE ^^^^^
W emailed me back:
W: "Fine. I guess we will just waste the ticket."
I did not respond to that email.
W emailed again an hour and a half later.
W: "In response to you email about us. All I took from your email is that you still didn't tell me if you're dating or f*cking someone else. I guess I'm just supposed to assume you are and that secrets are still how you communicate with me. At least I was honest with you when I started dating."
I didn't reply to this email right away.
W then texted me 15 minutes after her last email.
W: "I don't know if you got my emails but I'm going to give your ticket away since you don't want to go with us"
Me: "I completely understand."
W: "F*ck you. That's how I'm feeling."
I then replied to her email.
Me: "I'm not trying to be secretive W. I'm not dating anyone. I hung out with the woman that I told you about a few times over the past several weeks. However, I told her the other night that I need time before I can consider seeing her again. I have not slept with her."
W replied.
W: "Whatever. I hope she's everything you always wished I was. F*ck her and f*ck you for maintaining a relationship with the b!tch all these years even when we were together."
Great day.
Denver
M 43 X 38 T 13 W moves out of home 11/2010 Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012 I request divorce 5/2012 W moves home 6/2012 Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015 I leave 3/2016 process of divorce
