One more thing...trying to read through another person's thread and I saw this link to a blog posted:

http://myjourneyaftertheaffair.blogspot.com/2011/07/story-so-far.html

It is a WAW's account of what she was thinking and going through during and prior to coming back and what it has been like since she's been back. That's just the first entry but I read each one all the way up to present day and it REALLY did a number on me to help understand "where" my wife is and "where" I'd hope she gets. Not condone or provide her with any excuses but to kind of visualize how this whole thing is even possible for her.

May help some others so give the entire series of blog posts a read if you have some time. Sounds like her husband did some great DB'ing without even knowing it.


mid 20s
Tgther 7 yrs
W EA 04/12/11 PA 04/23/11
W filed 05/11/11
I moved out 08/05/11
Mediation mid Oct 11
D final Dec 11
Now what? ...2012