You can't spoon feed your W. So if she is non responsive what do you do?
I understand wanting to meet your kids needs. But it is up to her whether she will fulfill what they want from her.
I guess just comfort them as best you can.
You could talk to your W about being there more for them. But I would not recommend telling your kids.
Because I fear she will dissapoint again. And this would hurt them even more.
IDK man. This is just tough [censored].
Just know. If you continue to show your kids YOUR strength. This will comfort them during this tough time more than you know. They need a rock right now. You're the only who can be it.
Peace man.
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