Good for you, West. It sounds like you had a breakthrough. Maybe have another look at this though:

Originally Posted By: westcoastfella
It was her choice to go down that path, and now it's up to her to decide where we go next.


I think she gets to decide where SHE goes next. I wouldn't turn over my power to decide how I move forward to her. Discover who you are and who you want to be, set your course, follow it and let her decide if she wants to come along. You might find she likes a man in control of himself who can lead.