I never said Big Lots was a bad guy. I said it was quite clear that he was not that into you, whether or not he is a good guy, whether or not in a different time and place things might be different. Right now, he is not that into you. And that was clear before the missed date, before the pocket dialing.
Now, as a matter of fact, his explanations for the missing time are sketchy. His pocket dialing demonstrates insincerity. All signs point to him being a player. But, whatever. It doesn't matter.
What matters is that you recognized that he was not that into you and then repeatedly explained away your intuition.
