Your H sounds like my XW.
We are divorced and living together.
And yes, it stinks.
I only put up with it for the kids.
D isn't as easy as he makes it sound.
See a lawyer, know your position.
Be sure to tell S13, none of this is his fault.
Kids blame themselves sometimes.
They must have the first consideration.

Prayers
Pickle

Me 53 XW 50
M 18 Years +2
S14 D19
Bomb 10-24-10
Served 1-27-11
Mediate 4-21-11
Civil D Final 6-2-11
No church anullment
"A man is not finished when he is defeated, he is finished when he quits."