well country, what makes me feel like im doing the right thing is trying to help my kids through this time. Their mother doesnt contact them at all any more. she doesnt answer when they call her.
Tonight i watched my d7 call her mother 7 times. The entire time she was pleeding for mom to pick up the phone. I tried telling her that mommy was probably busy right now. it didnt make it any better for her.
I have decided that i have done enough for my w. I have included her in everything, and to be honest, i think i would expect something from her if i continue to keep her informed. My plan is to now cut her out of my life. But how do i do that for the kids? My daughter wants me to take her to mommys house so she can see her.