I attended the party this weekend. It was kind of surreal, so many folks at the house and my WAW there as well, since she's been moved out for nearly 6 months.
Her GF and her came by on Friday to get the house ready. It was a little awkward, but I lent a hand and then disappeared when the setting up died down.
On the day of the party, we didn't interact much at all. Very strange...it doesn't appear that my WAW has told many folks about the D. I'm not sure what to think of that, hard to process.
We have some casual chit chat at the end of the party and then she took off. Again, no discussions about the unwinding (financial stuff). A few of her GF's that do know the sitch did seem like they were probing for her. How are you doing? Traveling much? Interesting conversations about do I want a family (we were trying before she abruptly stopped). One of her GF's was doing a bad job of hiding her feelings, I could tell she was definitely seeing the situation from my WAW's perspective.
Like other folks, still learning to detach, and not over-analyze.
It was hard after the party, but feeling a better today.
One day at a time....
_______________________ M: 47; W: 39 M: 4.5 yrs; T: 18 years No children Separated: 01/19/11 Wife Served Papers: 02/1/11 Wife moved: 03/05/11 Responded: 04/14/11
