This has been the absolute worst day that I've had in a long time. I am absolutely miserable not knowing if I am doing the right thing or if I am handling my sitch in the right way.
Denver
You are so not detached man. Forgive me for the conflicting advice and "projecting" my sitch.
I do believe our WA's need to change though, and we can't change them. The split personality crap, cold vs. nice, how long are you going to endure that? Say you get back together and it continues? You're back to square one?
Detaching means you are mentally and emotionally prepared for many different future scenarios. It will make you stronger, not outwardly for others to see, but inwardly. And lo and behold, it makes you more attractive.
What I am trying to say is, until you really let go, is she going to change? I don't know - But you can figure it out. Just something to think about.
I recommend a healthy prayer life. He Knows.
Me 53 XW 50 M 18 Years +2 S14 D19 Bomb 10-24-10 Served 1-27-11 Mediate 4-21-11 Civil D Final 6-2-11 No church anullment "A man is not finished when he is defeated, he is finished when he quits."
