Paige - My husband was a little startled that he'll be expected to pay child support as well. He figured we'd have S7 50/50 and we make similar pay, so he'd pay half of daycare, and that's about all.
It's amazing to me all the things they didn't think about before they went off and did this.
And I agree - your duty is to your kids. Making his life easier is not your concern.
H: 39, Me: 37 SD: 18, S: 7 M: 9, T: 10 "I love you but am not in love with you" - 5/11 Discovered online affair - 7/11