The conflicting advice you get here is always so interesting, Denver. I know, for me, it would add to my frustration, but you seem to manage it well.

I think it's a real testament to how complex your situation is - and it should be comforting to know that there's no one right way to handle things.

Me: 33, H: 32
M: 12 years T: 13 years
No kids
D-Day: 7/2009
Separated: 10/12/10
Future Unknown
GITS

"There's a fire starting in my heart, reaching a fever pitch and it's bringing me out the dark." - Adele