My present goal right now is to save my marriage and have my family back. I love my wife and I don't want my kids to have a broken home. I'm taking this time to learn patience, pray and get a little closer to god. Its been 9 months and my wife doesn't communicate with me. I feel left in the dark. She had threatened me with divorce papers and all and I never saw anything. If she would give me just a hint of something, our would make things a little clearer.
No,i didn't call my wife a fool. I commented thather actions are foolish. She had acted totally against her own moral code and principles.
Was it kind of mil to have us live in her home? Yes, but, she has a nasty mouth and could care less who she hurts with it. Why live us live in your home and them call me worthless just because I'm not a handy man? And her constant involvement in raising our kids was unacceptable! example... My first born is borderline autistic. He's not a sports fan. He's more like me...comics, movies, superheroes, wrestling and video games. So one day came that I told mil that I was not going to take our son to play ball because he simply did not want to. She mil told my son right in front of me that she was going to take him to the ymca to get him a big brother because he really didn't have a dad. 25, I have a huge list of things that buzzard did! Just my wife likes to live lavishly and mommy gets her the things I can't. And my w had her so under control its not even funny. Bottom line, the buzzards gotta go!
All the name calling and belittlement mil has done is rediculous! Yes, she has good in her,but ir doesn't mean she can shoot her mouth off when ever she wants. And instead of trying to encourage her daughter to stay in her marriage, she encourages her to date and dump me. Mil was the one that told me to forget the 20 years I had with her daughter and find another woman. And, if her daughter wants to screw another man, that I should let her.
25, I'm sorry hon, but that woman is bad news. That's why she is a hermit. She its terrified of her daughter leaving her behind. As long as ashes in the picture, we will never be a happy couple.
About my 180's? All I can say about that is that I've learned lots of patience! In the past,i had a short fuse. I think most latin men do. I have taken control of my own bills. And, I've learned to budget. Her main complaints were we fight to much and I want handy in the house. To be honest, it got real bad after plastic surgery. That's when she changed. Weve had a good life 25. She is also stressed out. She is a real go getter. Shes been in school for the last 8 years. I think we just lost track of each other. And when those 2 boys died in our back yard last october, I think It might of triggered something.
My gal has been simple, allot of church functions and I'm back at the gym hardcore. Most of my free time goes to my babies. And allot of praying.
She hasn't filed, which to me its a good thing. Spewing has tamed down and she at home allot with the kids. I humbly understand the need to change 25, but it can't be just me.
Me: 37 W: 37 Married Feb 14 1997 Seperated Thanksgiving weekend 2010 No divorce filed yet 1st born son:13 2nd daughter:9 3rd son:4 Trying hard to detach
