I know how tough it is, but you have to stop looking.

It only hurts you and slows your process.

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I'm not really DB'ing because I'm not doing anything to spur "change" in my marital situation


Oh I beg to differ.

Just because you're not saying anything does not mean you are not doing anything.

You're doing something different.

You're NOT doing what has been PROVEN not to work.

Peace man.

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Happiness is not something ready made. It comes from your own actions.