How crazy is it that I don't remember exactly why I took mine off?? I remember I did it the day after I saw that my w wasnt wearing hers. I also remember some of my feelings.
"if she's not wearing hers, why should I wear mine?" "I should take mine OFF to spite her" " I should keep mine ON to spite her" " Taking mine off means I am giving up"
The thing is.. That I was giving to much power to a piece of jewelry. It was stopping me from detaching.
I still uphold my vows. I still honor my marriage. My wedding band doesn't define that.
M(f): 40 D'ed: 8/12
Show empathy when there's pain. Show grace when warranted. Kindness in the midst of anger. Faith in the face of fear.
