"We have no papers or anything legal. I am sure H thinks I will sort that out like I do everything else but I don't want a divorce so I am not doing any work to get it done."

So our spouses are related...

Thanks, everyone, for your responses to my questions. The wedding ring question came up yesterday from our keyboard player in the worship band; he was surprised I was wearing it...

"I'm still married" was my reply to his question.

"But she is not acting like she is married or like a wife should."

"I know. But as long as I am married to her, I am going to honor my vows."

He then mentioned something about having my head examined, but I assured him that was already done, and they didn't find a thing.

H 56
W 48
D27,S21
SS25
SS22 Severely autistic
M(#2 for both) 9 1/2 yrs.
"I've never loved you" 3/7/2011
Separated 8/7/2011
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