Originally Posted By: Denver_2010

But feeling like that, it is very difficult for me to really turn my attention to doing things that I would do if I felt like my M were really over.


The things you would "do" should not be dependant on your marital status........

now if the only thing that makes Denver happy is being with a woman........

well.....let me just say that I think that there are other things that are fullfilling in life and that can make you happy. smile

Originally Posted By: Denver_2010


It is limbo.

Where I have been for months.



I know this feeling.......all I can say is TIME......

in TIME it does get better.

I for one think you are doing okay.....certainly much better than you were........

you are far more self aware than you were........

you can acknowledge your feelings without acting on them....

Now may be a good time to stop and take a look over your shoulder.......

Look at where you were personally 9 months ago.......

What did it look like then for Denver?????

What does it look like today?????

Hint: not asking about the status of you marriage wink

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Expose yourself to your deepest fear; after that, fear has no power, and the fear of freedom shrinks and vanishes. You are free.

~Jim Morrison