Been a while since I visited your thread. Though life ebbs and flows, it doesn't appear as though your H has changed at all. You still struggle with that which is missing in your M. I admire you for "standing", and I hope it is not taking a heavy toll on you.
He wants how OW makes him feel, but he doesn't want to break up D12's family. Is that it? My XW isn't any different, endorphins, feelings, same old excuses. So she divorced me but remains in the home (with my permission) for the sake of S12.
Actually I envy you a little bit, not in any sense you might expect though. "Out of the mouths of babes" is what grabbed me from your post. Frankly, I'd love it if my S12 would suggest his divorced parents no longer live as roommates. That would be music to my ears. Yes it's taken a toll.
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Me 53 XW 50 M 18 Years +2 S14 D19 Bomb 10-24-10 Served 1-27-11 Mediate 4-21-11 Civil D Final 6-2-11 No church anullment "A man is not finished when he is defeated, he is finished when he quits."
