And btw, even now I don't think he was a "bad guy" - just an overwhelmed slightly self-centered and passive-aggressive guy who wasn't quite as into me as I was into him. I'm sure he's scratching his head wondering why I wasn't more patient with him given his personal drama. But I'm trying to avoid those guys that aren't quite that into me, and definitely not going to date someone who can't come out and be straight with me - that's high on my list.
