He will not go to C because he does not want a stanger involved in his buiness and telling him what he has done wrong or right. He is very private. he does not want to analized at all. I do not know right now what he is willing to do to regain my trust. He is still not sure what he wants. he is still up and down. Last night he was down and even left for the night to go to a hotel to think.
Maybe I'm missing something here. Why does your husband control all of the cards here?
If it were me, this "going to the hotel to think" thing would happen precisely ONCE, at which point I would start making some of my OWN decisions.
