Things between us have deteriorated, to the point that:
We are no longer intimate, haven’t been for 2 months now. At first, I missed it badly, but now, I don’t even feel my sex drive anymore.
He flinches when I even so much as touch him. We still sleep in the same bed but its been the clinging to the edge of the mattress scenario. If in my sleep I touch or roll close to him, he pushes my offending part away.
Wow Angel: All of that hits so close to home. All of this happended to me starting last winter and it gradually got worse until she went back to spleeping on the couch and finally filed for D. Exact same behaviors. I would never advocate taking a child away from their parent so far but Imine are much younger and need both of us right now. Your sitch may be different and I'm new to this. There are alot more experienced DBers out there who can give some good advice.
