I thought you wanted to reconcile. But that goal has changed, right?
I mean, your tone is NOT a tone of someone who is working on himself or looking to make his way back to his wife at all,
but a man who wants his w to crawl back to him...not likely if all she sees is your anger. That's all I'm picking up from your posts at least.
You have to answer whether marriage to YOU would be better now, than before.
And why would your wife believe that? What has SHE seen from you? A lot of anger?
although you claim you made changes...what are they?
As far as THIS example of her behavior...I don't get it.
Maybe some MLC stuff... b/c there are new people in her life but...
Unless you believe she's cheating with BOTH men at the same time, with their knowledge, isn't it possible they ARE just friends?
However they Might be "using" her, I find it hard to believe she'd bring two "lovers" over. And a lot of women in their late 30s are young looking.
What's so repulsive about your w that no man in his late 20s could find interesting? And how do you KNOW their age?
I have friends from differing ages. I don't believe the men who are younger merely want my money or sex with me. In fact, we often work together on artistic endeavors. I have some talents I share with artists of different ages.
So does my h. Guess I don't get the whole "FOOL" appearance you highlighted.
She was polite to you and suggested you meet them --to allay your suspicions--so you drove off.
How is that the behavior of a man with nothing to hide? Isn't it just you storming off? Do you see any problem with your reaction?
Weren't some of your w's complaints that you were too critical and hypocritical?
See how your reaction plays right into that?
So, back to those changes You made...what were they?
I just pick up on so much anger from you, I have to wonder how a reconciliation would ever happen with you two.
I didn't grow up seeing a lot of forgiveness so I had to learn it. It's a process. But it's mandatory for a restored marriage AND as a great example for your kids.
Right now you sound really stuck in your pain and anger. That'll make it tougher for your kids, and you.
Have you discussed forgiveness at least as a concept, with your pastor? Do you know what it would look like?
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
