Are you "legally" separated, i.e. formal court documents, financial protections in place, etc.?
Yes, I am still wearing my wedding band. I think it's a personal decision for everyone. For me, it's partially an act of defiance. I don't agree that D is the right answer or the key to happiness. I'm not drinking the Kool-Aid. It's a reminder that I'm not giving up easily. Other people that know both of us can easily tell who wants this D and who doesn't want it as well.
We are informally separated right now. Or I guess you could say "illegally" separated becuase there's no court documents in place.