He has stopped all direct contact with OW. They work in the same squadron. He does not work side by side with her. His postion requires that he sometimes has contact with her but it is not often and never alone. It is only work related. But he does see her on a daily basis at work since they are in the same building. He does not seek her out. I have been DBing and changing me. He will not go to C because he does not want a stanger involved in his buiness and telling him what he has done wrong or right. He is very private. he does not want to analized at all. I do not know right now what he is willing to do to regain my trust. He is still not sure what he wants. he is still up and down. Last night he was down and even left for the night to go to a hotel to think. I am hoping he comes back tonight. Last week all week he was possitive and upbeat about our future so I do not know what happened. He is only 37 but could he be having an early MLC?
