Man, I feel for you......I remember clearly being where you are at......We have all been there.
It does get better........however it does take TIME.
Just know that it will get better and that will help with the time thing.
Trust me when I say that you will look back on this time as a "growth" period for you.......probably the biggest growth period in your life.
Analyzing the "why's" your W is doing this helps....just don't make the mistake of thinking that your actions will change with some realization of why your W is going through this. You can get lost in trying to figure her out.
Focus on you and your kids.
Cheers
Formerly "missherlove"
Me49 XW49 M17 T19 S16 D20
Expose yourself to your deepest fear; after that, fear has no power, and the fear of freedom shrinks and vanishes. You are free.
